Comfirmation
Har ni någon gång hört talas om Fältteori i Gestaltterapi? Om inte så borde ni faktiskt ta en titta på det. Anledningen till att jag tar upp det är för att jag är så jävla trött på människor som tror sig äga stora delar av världen. Det fascinerar mig något att man faktiskt kan tro så högt om sig själv. EN människa är ju bara en ytterst liten del av återstående värld. Därmed inte sagt att en person är obetydlig.
Hur som helst är jag trött på människor som städigt söker bekräftelse på för mig fullkomligt orelevanta saker. Vissa saker är bara så onödiga att påpeka, jag säger pick your battles. Och ja här lyder förklaringen till varför
We're all given a finite amount of time in a day, and it's up to each of us to determine how to spend it. In relationships (with kids, with a spouse, and so on), we're faced with many conflicts everyday, and you may be tempted to fight through each of these conflicts, to ensure you get your way, to prove that you're "right," or maybe just because you feel challenged. But most experts agree: choosing your battles wisely is a much better way of life than battling out every disagreement.
Often we allow ourselves to get all worked up about things that, upon closer examination, aren't really that big a deal. We focus on little problems and concerns and blow them way out of proportion.
It's up to us to choose to either make a big deal or simply let it go, if you learn to choose your battles wisely, you'll be far more effective in winning those battles that truly are important to you.
Ideally, we'd all like to live in a conflict-free environment, where battles rarely, if ever, happen. And while it may seem like a stretch, getting to this point is really only a matter of figuring out what is really important to you, what is worth fighting for (and what's not), and, perhaps, being a little more open-minded and accepting of those around us.
Any fool can criticize, complain, condemn -- and most fools do. Picking your battles is impressive and fighting them fairly is essential.
